今日话题：缘分

Today's topic: Fate
Fate has not yet arrived, it cannot be forced. Why do you say that? Many aspects of life, such as love, expanding social circles, job hunting, understanding life, and even wealth acquisition, are closely related to fate. Many times, we may be able to obtain something temporarily, but we cannot hold it for a long time, which is called fate without separation. So, how should we understand fate and separation? Generally speaking, fate means meeting, displaying, and obtaining, while division represents being able to hold on steadily after obtaining.
In fact, we don't need to worry unnecessarily or overthink. Live as you please, without being overly constrained by external rules and social norms. It should be understood that no matter where a person is, they will not starve to death. The concept here should not be confused with the previous statements of going against the will of heaven. What we emphasize is following the will of heaven, and all of this is a matter of destiny. Why can others do it, but you can't? There is really no need to force many things, let alone humbly strive for them. What truly belongs to you will never abandon you; What doesn't belong to you, even if you spend your whole life, it's hard to gain anything. If one persists in their own opinions and acts unilaterally, it is like stepping into a trap set by the heavens and experiencing pain unconsciously. People are destined to die from birth, and most people do experience pain during this process, but there is always a glimmer of hope and a way out of the established predicament.
People are often stubborn, and the root cause lies in the limitations of cognition. We often limit ourselves to this limited cognition, hesitate, lack the determination to pursue infinite improvement, and lack clear goals and firm beliefs.
In terms of my own experience, it can be described as a mixed bag. Rich emotional experiences and diverse social experiences have given me a keen insight into human nature, a thorough understanding of rules, a grasp of the underlying logic of social operation, and a clear understanding of the laws of capital operation. Those lost, although there are regrets, are also worth it, because the gains are far more than what was lost, and I am deeply satisfied with this. Those that are lost, either by fate or not worth having, or those that I voluntarily give up. There is a passage in "Half Life Fate" that I particularly love: "Remembering doesn't mean it's eternal, forgetting doesn't mean it hasn't happened; at the moment of origin, we look up at the sky together; at the end of fate, peach blossoms accompany me to smile at the spring breeze
No one's life can be as smooth as flowing clouds and water. But I always firmly believe that those who have gone through the misty rain of Pinghu, the mountains and rivers of time, and tasted all the flavors of the world, will live more vividly and purely.
Flowers bloom and fall without regret; Fate comes and goes, just like flowing water. Flowers wither only for the sake of blooming, flowers fly to evoke sadness, flower sadness turns into tears, and flower tears cause flowers to shatter. Amidst the flower dance, the flowers shed tears; When the flowers wither, the petals fly. Flowers bloom without knowing who to thank, flowers wither without knowing who to mourn for.