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2025-03-30
今日话题：缘分今日话题：缘分缘分未到，强求不得。为何如此说呢？生活中的诸多方面，诸如恋爱、拓展社交圈、求职、领悟人生，乃至财富获取，都与缘分息息相关。许多时候，我们或许能一时获得某些东西，然而却无法长久守住，这便是所谓的有缘无分。那么，缘与分究竟该如何理解呢？大致来讲，缘意味着遇见、展现与获得，而分则代表在获得之后能够稳稳守住。实际上，我们无需杞人忧天，过度思虑。怎么舒心便怎么生活，莫要被外界规则与社会观念过多束缚。要明白，人无论身处何方，都不至于被饿死。这里的理念，切莫与以往那些逆天而行的说法混淆，我们强调的是顺应天命，这一切皆是命中定数。为什么别人能做到，而你却不行？很多事情实在没必要强求，更不必低声下气去争取。真正属于你的，自会不离不弃；不属于你的，即便穷尽一生，也难有收获。倘若固执己见，一意孤行，便如同踏入了天道设下的陷阱，在不知不觉中饱尝痛苦。人从出生便注定走向死亡，大多数人在这一过程中确实会历经痛苦，但总会有一线生机，总有办法跳出既定的困局。人往往是固执的，究其根源，在于认知的局限性。我们常常局限于这有限的认知，徘徊不前，缺乏追求无限提升的决心，没有明确的目标与坚定的信仰。就我自身经历而言，可谓得失参半。丰富的感情经历，多样的社会体验，让我对人性洞察入微，对规则了如指掌，知晓社会运转的底层逻辑，也明白资本的运作规律。那些失去的，虽留有遗憾，却也值得，因为收获远比失去的多得多，对此我深感满足。那些失去的，或是有缘无分，或是本就不配拥有，亦或是我自愿放弃的。《半生缘》中有一段话，我尤为喜爱：“记住了并不代表是永恒，忘却了也不等于没发生；缘起时，与你共望苍穹；缘灭处，桃花伴我笑对春风。” 没有谁的日子能过得如行云流水般顺遂。但我始终坚信，历经平湖烟雨、岁月山河，那些饱经沧桑、尝遍世间百味的人，会活得更加生动且纯粹。花开花落花无悔，缘来缘去缘如水，花谢为花开，花飞为花悲，花悲为花泪，花泪为花碎，花舞花落泪，花枯花瓣飞，花开为谁谢，花谢为谁悲 English - Today's topic: Fate Fate has not yet arrived, it cannot be forced. Why do you say that? Many aspects of life, such as love, expanding social circles, job hunting, understanding life, and even wealth acquisition, are closely related to fate. Many times, we may be able to obtain something temporarily, but we cannot hold it for a long time, which is called fate without separation. So, how should we understand fate and separation? Generally speaking, fate means meeting, displaying, and obtaining, while division represents being able to hold on steadily after obtaining. In fact, we don't need to worry unnecessarily or overthink. Live as you please, without being overly constrained by external rules and social norms. It should be understood that no matter where a person is, they will not starve to death. The concept here should not be confused with the previous statements of going against the will of heaven. What we emphasize is following the will of heaven, and all of this is a matter of destiny. Why can others do it, but you can't? There is really no need to force many things, let alone humbly strive for them. What truly belongs to you will never abandon you; What doesn't belong to you, even if you spend your whole life, it's hard to gain anything. If one persists in their own opinions and acts unilaterally, it is like stepping into a trap set by the heavens and experiencing pain unconsciously. People are destined to die from birth, and most people do experience pain during this process, but there is always a glimmer of hope and a way out of the established predicament. People are often stubborn, and the root cause lies in the limitations of cognition. We often limit ourselves to this limited cognition, hesitate, lack the determination to pursue infinite improvement, and lack clear goals and firm beliefs. In terms of my own experience, it can be described as a mixed bag. Rich emotional experiences and diverse social experiences have given me a keen insight into human nature, a thorough understanding of rules, a grasp of the underlying logic of social operation, and a clear understanding of the laws of capital operation. Those lost, although there are regrets, are also worth it, because the gains are far more than what was lost, and I am deeply satisfied with this. Those that are lost, either by fate or not worth having, or those that I voluntarily give up. There is a passage in "Half Life Fate" that I particularly love: "Remembering doesn't mean it's eternal, forgetting doesn't mean it hasn't happened; at the moment of origin, we look up at the sky together; at the end of fate, peach blossoms accompany me to smile at the spring breeze No one's life can be as smooth as flowing clouds and water. But I always firmly believe that those who have gone through the misty rain of Pinghu, the mountains and rivers of time, and tasted all the flavors of the world, will live more vividly and purely. Flowers bloom and fall without regret; Fate comes and goes, just like flowing water. Flowers wither only for the sake of blooming, flowers fly to evoke sadness, flower sadness turns into tears, and flower tears cause flowers to shatter. Amidst the flower dance, the flowers shed tears; When the flowers wither, the petals fly. Flowers bloom without knowing who to thank, flowers wither without knowing who to mourn for. 图片

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白泽 3月30日
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今日话题（控制欲望）控制欲望，掌控自我，切勿被潜意识所左右。加油，你定能做到，且必定可以成功。当我们滔滔不绝地阐述自身无法内化或践行之道理时，实则所彰显的并非你的博才多学，而是你的无知愚昧。例如《简·爱》中的经典段落：“你以为我贫穷、相貌平平便毫无感情吗？倘若上帝赐予我财富与美貌，我会令你无法离开我，恰如我现今难以离开你一般。” 此乃一种境界。若你达至这般程度，并非毫无欲望，而是能够掌控欲望。譬如，我于夜晚时分深感饥饿，渴望进食，但我能够向大脑传递信息，明日清晨再享用美食。又或者，夜晚难以入眠，总想着玩手机，然而我可以选择不玩，通过呼吸、闭目养神，抑或冥想放空自我，以使自己冷静下来，从而迅速入睡。当下的娱乐方式繁多，吸引着人们的注意力。为何会如此呢？原因众多。这亦是一种控制人的手段，无论是资本还是各个国家，皆期望民众顺从，成为他们所期望的模样。倘若每个人都富有了，那么谁来推动社会的运转呢？他们掌控人心的手段数不胜数。我亦不奢望所有人都能够自我控制，那实在是异想天开。我只期望一小部分人能够保持理智，无论是面对利益还是自身欲望，皆能加以克制。当前国内的乱象有哪些呢？在此，我可为大家略作透露。如今的高中生、大学生以及一些少妇，年龄在 16 至 38 岁之间，明码标价为 3500 至 10 万元不等。这究竟说明了何种问题呢？在往昔，女性颇具雄心壮志，认为男生能做到的她们同样可以做到，通过自身努力创业或参加工作，很快便能获得晋升。彼时因人才匮乏，故而能够闯出一片天地。然而现今，除了科研工作、自媒体、公务员、教师等职业，其余职业皆缺乏体面感，无法给予她们自信，让人觉得前途渺茫。正因如此，才出现了诸多乱象。此外，一些平台传播错误价值观，致使她们觉得自己的身体不值钱，十几岁便可以生育孩子。十二三岁、十四五岁，天啊，自己尚且还是孩子，又如何能给予孩子保障呢？即便有父母相助，对自身身体的伤害亦是极大的。目前国家面临的问题繁多，几乎应接不暇。当前这种消费降级的状况或许会持续一段时间，但一段时间过后，可能仍会维持此种状态。未来的日子将会十分艰难，且这种状况或许会持续十几年之久。许多准备或许都是徒劳的，因为货币会贬值，国家定然不会让其贬值过多，但民众的收入将会减少，甚至可能没有收入。我们普通人能够囤积多少粮食呢？在未来的日子里，能省则省，以应对未来的挑战。除了一些特殊地区的房价不会下跌之外，其他地方的房子若有意购买，可暂且等待观望。目前市场形势尚不明确，可等到 2027 年或 2028 年再做决定。倘若生育率依旧无法提升，房价可能会继续下跌。

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